It`s good to hire a wedding planner for your wedding. Wedding planner is the one who will convert the dreams of bride and groom for the wedding into reality. They are the one who will take all the responsibility to make your day memorable and beautiful.
The wedding planner always help you in tough situations. But there are certain things which you don’t have to ask the wedding planner, especially for brides.
Ladies always remember, wedding planner is not your personal assistant or family therapist. Still some brides believe what they are doing is the part of job description.
I have heard many bizarre types of things from the wedding planner which I am going to tell you.
Well ladies, this is your wedding you have to make your own decision. Every planner wants flexible couples but sometimes they got indecisive clients which is a nightmare. It makes the work of both the wedding planner and the couple much more difficult, when client`s is not able to make a single decision. Good ideas arise with the perfect combination.
A Wedding Planner is Not a Servant for the Couple or the Wedding Party
First, thing every couple have to remember that wedding planner is your friend, never treat him like a Servant. Don’t tell them to do your personal things.
Once a wedding planner was asked to bring the bridesmaid purse and bring the gifts over the table. No one likes to touch your personal things, your wallet or cards because the second they go into your hands, it will become your responsibility. So ladies, be aware from the next time. Avoid doing such things which lower the image of your wedding planner, treat him like your friend.
A wedding planner is not a relationship therapist-
Sometimes couples cannot tell to each other that we didn’t like the engagement ring or we don’t like his/her parents. And they tell everything to wedding planner, it sounds too cheezy. Especially this thing happens with girls, instead of saying to wedding planner, tell it to your partner. Wedding planner is not the one with whom you will spend your life. How awkward it looks when a bride mentions the financial income of his groom to the wedding planner. At this time, every wedding planner will suggest, Ladies we can’t help you out, you choose your partner yourself, so try to handle all your personal situations yourself.
This complain is very common among the wedding planner- the couples itself try to become a professional wedding planner, when they are not. By reading few articles on wedding planner, makes them think that they can arrange the whole wedding function itself.
Oh! Common ladies you have to understand that wedding planner is not your secret-bearer. If you want to lie to your family about the wedding dress, do it by own, don’t involve the wedding planner in it. The series which wedding planner offered is clearly mention in the agreement, so us them for your personal works.
The wedding planner is not your friend or personal assistant. Actually what ladies did they will call wedding planner to know where are their grooms or sometimes they cry on call too. the wedding planner can`t tolerate these things. Treat him like a host. Ask them about the progress of wedding work. There is no need to share the personal things. Calling a wedding planner after 9p.m without a prescheduled meeting is a very bad thing.
Wedding planner won’t be able to make much money as you think. This is their work which they love. When some people ask them about the cost of the services their eyes get big and we usually use to hear ‘oh you are rich.’ After hearing high range of cost, the couple would ask- Ok then how many hours you work or in how many days you would complete the task. At that time, a wedding planner would think that he is an independent contractor. Mostly beautiful weddings which we plan usually at least 12 months away. All the wedding planner usually divide their fee in 365 days.
Today couples demand we want this and that thing in our wedding. A wedding planner can provide a specific thing to you not the whole mix match of Pinterest concepts.
Sometimes the groom won`t be able to come in meeting because of busy meetings, so ladies instead of being aggressive attend appointment by own.
A Wedding Planner is Not the Ring Leader of your Wedding Party and Family
A wedding planner is not the in charge of everything that your sister got late in coming up from the parlor because she didn’t go early. A wedding planner cannot control your guests when they are busy inside the bar, and not coming out for the group photo which you had planned. We can’t control the guests so stop them leaving before the cake cutting or to stay there for an extra hour which you added for the reception. A wedding planner always recommend client to invite the right people in wedding. And always give the accurate number of guest list
So these are some strange and silly questions which generally ask by the couples to a wedding planner.